…. and I would like to tell you, why I am sometimes struggling with unicorns?
The moment I started my coaching career I was afraid… Super-feared (and at that time I didn’t had the tips & tricks and the sweet tech gadgets on how to deal with problems :-))
I was afraid about what I will be confronted with. Guru stuff, group sex, hugs everywhere (just kidding but you know what I mean…). I want to be a coach, maybe a different coach but I got here from a weird journey :-).. believe me!
From the beginning my goal was clear, crystal clear why I want to coach – I wanted to find the way with people will like me – having success and fulfillment in business and life – by thinking and acting in a self-supporting way. Make business easier and even though many people hate my claim: „the compromised art of success“ but I love it. It says exactly what I mean – you can have it all, you don’t have to decide between business and your life and still make it possible. The eso-Business; I like business, I like being successful – it’s fun if we leave that „oh I’m so stressed and busy; with many thing behind us pending“. I love success in that way that I have the feeling I am making a contribution, I can make a difference for people, employees and that I can build things, I can be creative, I can invent things, I can help young people… and that I can work with others.
I love business, when it is done rightly but some peoples who don’t do it right! It is not the business which bad. But on this topic we will talk some other time – how to do business right, especially as a woman… (or even better, just call me we will have a cup of coffee or two :-)).
Alright but let’s get back to the topic, eso-coaching as I (and I am still ashamed by all the judgments that I made on coaches and now I am one of them) called it. But everything happens for a reason… these words: create your vision, color your dream, build the picture in your mind. It rumbled with my gut. No, no, no… I don’t want to do that. No visions and imaginations please, people with visions should go and see a doctor. Not for me please. I can still hear the voices in my head. And the computer says „ohh nooooooo …!“
But of course I did :-). Today I have it all, all this super-eso life fulfilling coaching stuff: an inner authority (by the way that was very hard thing to find, I try fire it two times but no chance :-), a life purpose ( attention I work in phyrotechinque ), I have my guiding energies as my crew, I have even energy buttons on me …. I have it all. And I am really happy with it and my clients have them too! We have so much fun with it and can you guess why?
For me it was never enough to coach people. I saw what is happening with my clients and I loved being with them and support but I wanted to know WHY?
Please go and ask Tony Robins and all the Facebook Stupid-Guru Advertisers, why they are doing super-cool things?
WHY your thoughts create your reality?
Yes! It is true, super true but WHY?
My stand in coaching is that I want people not only to be at their best, because that is what all these tools can really do, I am the coach that always wants people to be as informed as I am after the process, so it is all about the brain. Your brain really doesn’t care if its real or imagination. It just wants to support you with what is important. So if you have that big purpose; if you act on purpose you have the chance to ENJOY, so you will be rewarded and you will find power, strength, you become more brave… you are in coherence with your well being. The brain loves images because our words and linear thinking is so flat that our imagination can be like a thunderstorm that words can never express. Describe me please in words the feeling of total relaxation or let the picture in your head lying at the beach when sun is shining at you belly, you hear the water, you legs feel heavy lying in the sand… . Which one was better? 🙂
So yes, use all these tools and techniques, those wonderful paintings to get your brain working better for you. It is just science that comes in a playful and funny shape. Everything that comes with emotions is important for the brain, so it is more likely to be wired and that is what we do, we (re-)wire ourselves every day and it is the decision in such process that we can make together. Do you want a happy or a angry brain?
So one hint: please check the animals on profile of our coaches, maybe you find a piece of „eso“ there that gives our brains the right direction too while we will be busy in building that dream company – fulfill our desires and core values to make a bigger contribution to people’s lives and health – and explore new things every day.