Our biggest strength can be a risk of failure from our destination – may be what follows is exactly what you need – it’s normal:
1. You are powerful; you are ambitious – see what is ahead…
.. and you ask yourself: “Is this really possible? Can I achieve it?”
The very power of your vision can be a real sabotage to your success because one may dream so big to get easily overwhelmed. It is matter of making right choices and taking right decisions but one may get temptation to get it all!
Does this resonate with you? Do you have sometimes a hard time to make meaningful and wise decisions ? You have to sort out what’s next? Get structured?
In difficult situations it is very easy to lose track of your life – this may cause issues with important relations with your friends and family. It is hard to follow a person and keep in contact if he or she gets lost in busy life. Do you feel alone with your dreams and challenges?
2. If you experience constant success…
Was it luck?
Am I putting my best efforts?
Am I up to the mark?
Am I special?
Can I achieve more?
Despite the admiration of people around, many times it doesn’t feel like you’ve ever had to work that hard for everything you’ve accomplished; which means you have natural ability and skills. It is easy to misinterpret the nature of rapid achievement, so it seems like you are hiding a “dirty little secret”. Many of the highest-achieving people on the planet judge themselves for being lucky or ‘lazy’. Did you already know this? There´s a word for that: Impostorsyndrome and it´s very common amogst perfromers, especially women ( in leadership ).
3. The better you do, better you feel that there must be strong commitments which are driving force.
… and sometimes it can distract you from your final destiny too. Do you enjoy and love what you are doing? Always ? – it is all you – you are the one who gives your best for it! The desire for success becomes stronger by deep commitments and values. If you feel the hunger to achieve it, you are on right path, you are unstoppable. But what if you have to play against yourself – when you feel fully motivated? When you are doing what you said you will do, it indicates that there is a stronger, competing commitment to which you are unknowingly committed.
Wanna know your real commitments?
4. You are comfortable in the rush….
The rush refers to a place where you need to recover too fast and growth is very slow. This pace like this can be a tough workout challenge and in no time it will make you feel tired. It burns your energy while you are not making any further improvements. You can already feel that this rush will sooner or later lead to decline in the performance. At the moment, are you just doing more of what you have been done since long; but no progress ? Are you already tired? Are you searching for balance? Then we should talk! The danger for a high performer is that your rush creates so much more than the average person and even your under performing is highly rewarded, that there is a temptation to continually under perform without even realizing that you’re doing so. Already bored and frustrated?
5. You are at your best when things collapse – you are an extremely talented problem-solver.
You have a finely-tuned ability to scan the horizon for “danger” and this bias towards solving problems means that you are energized by challenges and threats. So you tend to avoid things—taxes, relationships, income, etc.—until they reach problem-level status.
And you struggle to focus on longer-term goals?
6. The ladder gets higher and higher.
The more successful you become the more pressure and stress you will have to yourself. What if it was luck? You try to prove your success every day and you want to push it further to next level? The more achievement, the harder and challenging it all gets! the pressure you sense to keep up with that level can be enormous. Is there already the fear to loose it?
Are you protecting instead of pushing?
So the barrier to start each new project or work becomes unbearably high because each time goal is set to higher and higher level, based upon the rewards of your previous project.
7. Tomorrow is going to be even better than today…
You are visionary and future-focused. Being conscious and paying your close attention on the future, will enable you to act immediately, the moment you have an idea. But sometimes you can be also too slow to notice the impact of those déjà vu challenges – and observe what’s happening again and again. Are you aware of your repetitive traps and same mistakes that you keep repeating again and again?
No, not aware?
Then we should talk! Do write me an e-mail!
8. You are independent… Don’t need help.
Obviously no need to explain that. Because every person can achieve nearly everything on he or she wants. You have all the skills, competences and the power required to follow your dream. As you become successful, you also have the ability to decide and push it to next level, whatever you want. Yes, you don’t need help. People will be astonished by what you will create. You achieve the success only because you are committed. Did you already lost your team? Do you sometimes feel alone? Are you missing your own very personal support team or the one you have is not fast enough?
9. You miss something on your personal challenges, watching for your blind spots – do you have an appetite for feedback and growth?
The higher you rise, the harder it becomes to open up with the people around you. And the higher you rise, the harder it becomes for the people around you to speak up truth or reality. Top performers often have few people in their world willing to say exactly what they need to hear the most.
This is what we can do for you:
As coaches we are the one for our client’s, who are not here to please them by lying! We are very brave and like to speak the truth about your comfort zones: We won’t sugar coat it. We won’t let your fears hold you back even if you are so far away… already there is more for you in the plate. We won’t believe your ‘stories’ and so called reasons or excuses- you can and should evolve – you need to be challenged to feel alive. Being honest is the only policy we have; so be careful because we won’t buy any of your excuses. Even though you are great! We’ll show you the reality which no one else in your world is brave enough to say. And we’ll do that from our own authentic and vulnerable place.
You want to develop and improve yourself further and looking for new challenges?
Want to achieve something and want someone who will keep pushing you to achieve your destiny ? where world will try to would hold you back.. We believe and pretty sure from our work with strong girls & boys: you can achieve everything just because you want it. The only thing is to stop repeating same mistakes, try different things. Let’s talk more about it!
If some of these points resonate or if there are other good reasons to start working just tell me shortly about your goals and destiny!